Why Birth Plans Fail (and What to Do Instead) + Companion Planning Toolkit

Most birth plans fail. This is not because mothers do not plan. It is because hospitals are systems. A piece of paper by itself cannot override staff philosophy, policies, or hospital culture. The result is that too often, plans are set aside in the very moments they were meant to help you. This mini-guide and toolkit are here to change that.
 
Why Birth Plans Fail (and What to Do Instead) explains the most common mistakes families make and shows you how to prepare in a way that actually works inside the system. The Companion Planning Toolkit then gives you everything you need to put that knowledge into action. Your wishes become visible, your priorities are clear, and your support team knows exactly how to speak up when it matters most.
 
What’s Included:
Mini-Guide (PDF)→ Why Birth Plans Fail (and What to Do Instead) → learn why most plans get ignored, and discover the simple shift to plan better.
Instructions (PDF) → step-by-step guidance on how to complete, share, and talk through your plan.
One-Page Birth Plan Template (PDF + Editable Word Doc) → designed for staff, short and easy to read, so your wishes don’t get lost.
Top 5 Priorities Worksheet (PDF) → a private reflection exercise to help you and your support team get clear on what truly matters most.
Scenarios & Scripts (PDF) → practical language for common situations (induction, epidural, cesarean, monitoring), plus key phrases your partner or doula can use to slow things down and protect your priorities.
 
Why It’s Different:
Created by a doula with real experience guiding families through hospital births.
Centers your voice and values, instead of burying you in endless checkboxes.
Helps your care team understand your priorities quickly and clearly.
Transforms “just a plan on paper” into a confidence-building tool for you and your support team.
 
Download your copy and start preparing today!
 
Created by Kendra Lonon
Bridging the Wisdom of Birthwork with the Realities of Motherhood